People always said that there is bound to be some friction between the couple in the days leading up to the wedding. I have to say this, it is TRUE. Rachel and I had quite a few disagreements and I guess it is understandable with all the stress of making sure that everything goes on well for our wedding on top of our own current responsibilities at work. I am trying to be the rock in which she can lean on (or at times vent her frustrations and anger on) but it is definitely not an easy task. I did crack a few times and I would like to apologise to her again. Nevertheless I think all this should mould me to be a more patient and understanding person. I must confess that I am impatient towards my parents and those close to me but I really pray that I would change and never say a harsh word to them. I do realise that it is really difficult to change a 'habit' even though I feel guilty every single time I answer them rudely. It is a struggle that I must overcome if I ever want to be a better person. I guess we do put on a little mask when we face the world...
Happier thoughts
Another week to go before the end of my single era. Quite some time ago I was dreading this day a little bit but as the day of my wedding comes closer I am actually getting excited. I just want to share my joy with everyone that I know. I want everyone attending to just enjoy yourself that night and look good! It's an opportunity to dress well and flaunt yourself! :)
It's also an opportunity to catch up with long lost friends and renew bonds. So guys, let love flow that night wahahhaha. And to all the single ladies and gentlemen, I would be immensely proud if anyone could one day say "I met the love of my life at Adrian and Rachel's wedding".
There will be singing and dancing and merrymaking and lots and lots love. Ergh, to all guys reading my blog. I have not gone all mushy and soft, I am still a MAN. Well, maybe a mushy-er man but still a man. I will fight you if you say otherwise. Grrrrrr.... Mr Daniel Lee, do NOT say anything...
Oh yeah! Some of the pre-wedding photoshoots are up. Got them edited pretty late hence the last minute posting. Hope you guys enjoy looking at them as much as we enjoyed taking them.
In all the pics Rachel looks drop dead gorgeous and I look just... well... dead...
Lol, ok maybe I'm exaggerating a little. That's me being humble. Here's me being 'truthful'. Man I am one good looking guy. I mean, you cannot argue that I look really awesome in a suit. I had to like push countless girls away during the shoots. I mean, can't they see that I'm getting married??? Gosh...
And when I had to take out the coat and my white shirt was clinging onto me because of the sweat, it was Pandemonium. Imagine the screams by hysterical females when Justin Bieber walked on stage, now double that...no wait.... triple that and you might have an inkling of how it was. Crazy I tell you...
I have to say something about my bride to be too. I could smell jealousy emanating from all the males around that day. For a moment I though I had to Bruce Lee myself out of there. Guys, do you know the feeling you get when other guys are eying your girl? Be proud of it... suppress the anger and exult in the jealousy. :D
All in all it was all good. My bachelor clock is ticking but I am looking forward to becoming a married man. Hey, I'm marrying a bridal magazine model, what's there to complain about? Having a companion you can depend, rely, love, hug, hold, look at, grow old with, share everything with for all your life is a blessing that is beyond awesome. It's LEGENDARY...
1 Corinthians 13
1 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails.
